"In our society, people are obsessed with the idea that there's a single person who will make them happy. Eventually, though, most men wise up to the fact that happiness isn't about finding the right woman - it's about becoming the right man." Les Parrott, PH.D., a professor of clinical psychology at Seattle Pacific University.
You have the power to create the man/woman you will stand beside on your 50th anniversary by your kindness, forgiveness etc. (Shared by one of the pastors at the wedding of Ryan and Josephine Ludwig)